Managers, Do You Lie to Them?

The other day I had some new office furnituremanager working to gain the trust of your
delivered. The very professional and efficientworkers, please keep in mind that it's harder than
delivery person took my payment, and when heever before. However, there are a few things
saw the name of my business on the check, heyou can do to increase the levels of trust within
asked what the Management Education Group did.your organization:1. Tell the truth. If you don't tell it
I told him that I coach and teach managers to belike it is, you risk appearing evasive. Evasiveness is
more effective as leaders. The delivery personthe leading cause of mistrust. Even if it's bad
quickly replied, "So, you teach them to lie tonews, don't beat around the bush or sugar coat
us?"Since the delivery person seemed to be suchthe truth. Just tell it like it is.2. Give constant
a positive and enthusiastic person, I was takenfeedback. One way to ensure that your
aback by his comments. It made me wonder ifemployees don't trust you is to say nothing at all.
employees in general feel this way about theirWhen you don't share your thoughts and feelings,
managers or if this was an isolated case. Afterthey will substitute their own ideas for yours. And,
some thought, I realized that it's no wonder inthose thoughts and feelings may or not be what
today's business environment that employees areyou are really thinking. The more feedback and
not manager's biggest fans. In fact, managersinformation you can share, the more likely they
have been battling an "us vs. them" attitude forare to believe what you have to say.3. Be aware
years.While the sentiment probably began eonsof your impact. So many managers are absorbed
ago, our earliest recollections are from the latewith the tasks they have to perform that they
1800s, when factories exploited children andforget the impact they can have on others. The
workers operated in unsafe conditions. There's nomore aware you are of your own behavior and
doubt that workers back then did not trust theirhow it impacts others, the more likely you are to
management.Personally, my first recollection ofproject trustworthiness.Do you lie to your
being mistrustful of leaders coincided with theemployees? Of course you don't. However, they
Watergate scandal. I learned from the televisionmay perceive lies if you are not working to clarify
that all leaders are not 'good guys' and thatthe truth.Marnie Green, Chandler, AZ, USAMarnie
sometimes they lie to us. While Nixon was not myE. Green is Principal Consultant of the
boss, he was in charge of my country. If IArizona-based Management Education Group, Inc.
couldn't trust him, who could I trust?Now, with theShe is the author of Painless Performance
rash of corporate scandals--Enron, Worldcomm,Evaluations: A Practical Approach to Managing Day
and others-more and more workers are beingto Day Employee Performance (Pearson/Prentice
convinced that those in leadership positions haveHall). Green is a speaker, author, and consultant
likely lied to get where they are. And, while therewho helps organizations develop leaders today for
are surely more honest leaders in the world thanthe workforce of tomorrow. Contact Green at
there are liars, it's easy to see why workersoffer this article on a nonexclusive basis.
aren't sure who to trust these days.If you are a