Communicating with your child who doesn't use words to talk

We all know people who can speak volumesNow, let's add a picture of teddy to your board
without ever opening their mouths. They use theirso that you can show me the picture next time!"
hands, their body language, their facial expressions.#2 - Ideas & Feelings
Experts tell us that when we talk with each other,7. Augmentative Communication Boards - These
only 7% of our message is communicated by thedevices come in an amazing array of shapes &
actual words we speak. Now that we know thatsizes (& prices) and can really allow your child to
communication is not really about words -- it maycommunicate an awesome variety of messages
be a little easier to look beyond words when weboth practical & more abstract. If you feel like
communicate with our kids who don't use wordsyour child is ready for this level of device (a good
to "talk". Our tips today are divided into 2 groupsclue is when they frequently seem to have things
-- #1) communicating their basic needs & theto say that they just can't communicate
stuff in their environment & #2) sharing theireffectively) then there are several things you
ideas, feelings, & comments on life. So where doneed to do: „X Find a good speech
we start.language pathologist to assist you. „X Have
Our words of wisdom:your SLP do a full assessment to determine what
#1 - Needs & Stufftype of messages your child needs or wants to
1. Start with yes & no - By starting with yes &send & what types of devices they can operate
no you give your child the ability to answer twoor learn to operate independently. „X
very important questions: „X Are youWork with your SLP to narrow down the number
(tired, hungry, thirsty, etc)? „X Do youof possible devices to just 2 or 3. If possible try
want (a snack, your red shirt, to go to the park)?to borrow the devices for an in home trial period
Another advantage of starting with yes/no is thatfrom a state technology lending library or the
it can be done in a variety of ways from theactual company that sells the device. „X
standard head nod to virtually any combination ofTry to anticipate all of your technology needs up
motor responses. For example, twitching the leftfront. Who will train your child to use the device?
hand can mean yes & a head jerk can mean no.Who will program the device, both now & as your
The key is to find something your child has goodchild's needs change? Who will train your family &
control of & to use the system consistently.other support people in how to use the device?
2. Choice making - The next logical step from yesWho will repair the device if it breaks down? Will
no is usually a point response. This allows you toyou need help to fund the device? If so, what do
offer your child a wider range of options. Insteadyou need to do now to obtain the funding ? This
of doing the time consuming one at a time choicesounds like a lot of effort & it can be. But if your
you can offer your child a 2-3 choices at a time.child truly can utilize a communication device to
If a point response doesn't work this can also be"find their voice" everything you do will be worth
managed using head movements to the right, left,it.
& center. Just be sure your child understands the8. Teach typing - This may seem like an old
choices & which item he/she is picking!fashioned suggestion, but give it some thought.
3. Word Labels - If your child is mobile & has aWhether you use an actual typewriter or teach
fairly large vocabulary (or if you want tothem to type on a computer keyboard you give
encourage more vocabulary) word labels may bethem 1 tremendous advantage -- free thought.
a good choice for your family. Labeling involvesYour child will be able to say virtually anything (&
typing the names of frequently used objects in athey probably will!). This approach does not rely on
large type size, laminating the sign & attaching itanyone else to select pictures or program
with velcro to the actual item. When your childphrases. It's all their own creation. One advantage
wants the item they simply pull off the label &of going with the computer keyboard -- there is
bring it to you. This works really well if you startsoftware available that can anticipate frequently
with your child's favorite items. In addition toused phrases. This saves valuable keystrokes for
exposing your child regularly to written words thisslow typists that may have lots to say!
also encourages your child to initiate requests9. Comment Cards - A decided more low key
rather than wait on someone else to offer themapproach is comment cards. These are simply
something.index cards with different comments typed on
4. Touch Screens - Touch screens are athem in a large size. The cards can be color coded
wonderful invention! They allow your child toto help kids select the one they one quickly &
experience the awesome sensation of being ineasily. So, the red card says "I need a break" &
control -- making things happen! In addition to thisthe blue card says "I want a turn", etc. Comment
experience with cause & effect they encouragecards work well for kids who see a lot of
kids to get comfortable with the computer. Downdifferent people in the course of their day. Even
the road that comfort & familiarity will go a longfolks they don't know too well will understand a
way towards helping them adjust to moreprinted message. Communication isn't so secure if
complicated assistive technology devices.they are relying on subtle body movements.
5. Request/schedule boards - Request boards are10. Switch activated signals - These signals can be
simply photographs or black & white drawings ofoperated a variety of switches that can be
objects & activities that your child enjoys orgeared to virtually any controlled body movement.
needs often. They can be easilly updated as yourSignals usually consist of lights, sounds, or
child's favorites change & work well velcroed tovibrations & work well if your child attends group
wheelchair trays for kids who spend lots of timeactivities where they need to communicate with
seated in a wheelchair. Even the pictures can bethe group leader. Common messages might be,
velcroed on if you have a really "changeable" child."I'm done" or "I need help with this". Although
This allows the child to select which pictures theythese tips may seem simple we feel that most
want on their board at the beginning of the day.communication systems will actually use a
Picture boards also work well for school or familycombination of approaches. What works at school,
schedules & can help kids who stress aboutmay not always be right for home & vice versa.
change know what's coming up next.The most important things to shoot for when
6. Show me - Perhaps the simpliestdeveloping a communication system: „X
communication strategy is the simple "Show meDoes your child understand the system & can
what you need" response. This can be a realthey use it independently. „X Is your
frustration reliever when your child just can't getfamily & other people your child sees regularly
the words out or make their body cooperate.comfortable enough with the system to use it
The only drawback to this strategy is that kidsevery day. „X Is the system reliable &
rapidly become "sleeve tuggers" if you use thisuseful enough that it is working & in use more
method regularly. A good way to prevent this isthan it is broken or stuffed in a closet.
to build in step 2 right from the beginning. OnceHopefully some of these ideas will allow you to
your child shows you the desired item, respondopen the wonderful world of communication to
with "Oh you wanted your teddy bear! Great!your child! Happy chatting!