Stress Management Can Require Commitment

When stress is mentioned (and it seems to behigh blood pressure. His naturopathic doctor is
mentioned frequently) it seems to be anmystified and he is mystified.
unavoidable part of modern life. No one raises anBecause he is committed to lowering his blood
eyebrow when people say they are stressed. But,pressure without medication, he purchased a
though stress is commonplace to talk about,Resperate home biofeedback unit (FDA cleared to
there is not much information about real solutionslower blood pressure) and has been using it for
that can eliminate the stress that seems to beabout a month and he has not yet seen his blood
part of everyone's life.pressure decrease, hence his call to us.
Neither is it commonly understood how manyWe have had two lengthy phone conversations
chronic conditions are stress related. Doctorsand he appears to be having difficulty learning
know that stress is an underlying cause of manyhow to relax and manage his stress. He is,
chronic health problems for which people seekobviously, a very motivated and active individual
relief. Busy doctors have trouble taking the timewho is used to operating in a mode of focused
to outline and oversee a behavioral program thatattention and accomplishment (not too unusual for
can e effective for stress management.our society) and relaxation is foreign to him.
Stress management can be difficult because it isLearning how to operate in a manner (at least
best treated with behavioral methods that trainbriefly) that is less focused and less aggressive is
your body over time how to become a buffer toa challenge for him.
the negative effects of stress. Because it takesIt is interesting in this context to remember that
time to learn stress management techniques andthe two cardiologists who originally described the
apply them, it can take patience and commitmentType A Personality noted that the front edge of
to continue to apply these techniques until positivetheir waiting room chairs were worn down and
changes start to occur. If a chronic healththis was the clue which led them to their
problem has be present for many years, it candiscovery of the Type A Personality. Their cardiac
take weeks or even a few months to see apatients were literally unable to sit back and relax,
change. But, once the benefits of a stresseven while they were waiting for their doctor
management system start people often feelwith nowhere else to go.
empowered to continue.Given all the pressure to perform and accomplish
For example, I recently spoke with a man who isin our society it is not surprising that adopting new
in his mid 50s (he says his biological age is askills to manage stress that involve less
'young' 50) who has an extremely healthy lifestyleaggressive and more patient behavior can be
that includes regular exercise, a vegetarian dietdifficult. Learning these new skills may be difficult
and he is not overweight. His problem? He hasbut they can also be rewarding.